I had been looking forward to my 30th high school reunion for some time. It was going to be a small event, with fifteen to twenty fellow students showing up for a 4 day cruise to the Bahamas. It would be an opportunity to reconnect with some friends I hadn't seen in a long time, as well as get to know others better.
I guess the trip for me started on the Tuesday before the cruise. I had to go to the mall to get a new suitcase, as the one I intended to take was broken. And I had only used it a few times! Well, that's the price you pay for buying cheap stuff. Still, I did find a decent bag, albeit a tad expensive, but it did come with a lifetime guarantee, so I went ahead and bought it.
Packing was done by midnight and by 7 am I was at the airport checking in. An uneventful connection in Dallas, with lunch a the TGI Friday and by 8 pm Luiz, who had come to pick me up, and I were standing at the baggage claim waiting for my suitcase that did not arrive. I was about to go talk to the airline people when Luiz showed up with my suitcase and a big grin on his face: the suitcase had been on the caroussel all along, I just failed to recognize it! After the third trip around Luiz decided to check the tag and we were good to go.
The rest of the evening was a mini-reunion of sorts. I went to Luiz's house and got to see his wife and kids, and eventually was joined by Pedro (who was going on the cruise with me) and his kid, as well as Alberto. We talked, caught up on stories and eventually went out for dinner. I ended up at Pedro's, where I was going to spend the night, and we talked until about two in the morning. Not a problem for me, since I was on vacation, but it was a school night for Pedro.
Next day was a lazy day, which I spent having lunch and then hanging out with Alberto and Alice. Got to see, and be impressed, by some of Alberto's photos and artwork.
That evening the reunion started, with dinner at a restaurant called Boteco Miami. I arrived there at 6 pm, as planned, having forgotten that for Brazilians 6 means 7 if you want to get there early, but really 8 is when you should be there. Still, people started trickling in, not only those who were going on the trip but also several alumni that were now living in the Miami - Fort Lauderdale area. By 8:30 the party was in full swing and everyone seemed to be having fun. By 11 pm we were tired, though, so Luiz and I left for the 40 minute drive back to Pedro's.
Oh, and Boteco Miami had "coracao de galinha", so I was a very happy camper.
The cruise started the next day. Pedro and I drove to the port, parked the car and went to the terminal to check in. Forms were filled out; cards were printed and next thing we know we were walking up the gangplank lugging our suitcases. That was somewhat strange, given that the website had indicated our luggage would be taken from us and would not appear in our cabin until 6 pm or so. No one stopped us, though, so we boarded, found our cabin and went inside. As expected, it had a double bed instead of two singles. Neither Pedro nor I wanted to be that friendly, so I made a small trip to the main desk to have this resolved.

The rest of the first evening was food oriented. We got together for one hour of Bahama Mamas. I don’t know what was in those drinks but they sure were tasty! I downed a few more of those than I should have, but that was ok, I could blame the “heavy” seas for any instability while walking. After that it was dinner, where we got this huge table in one of the main restaurants.
The next day we were supposed to spend at an island by owned by the cruise line, but the seas were not collaborating: they were unable to lower the tender, so we spent the day at sea, cruising around and enjoying the boat’s amenities. For us this turned out to be congregating around the swimming pool, drinking, eating and catching up, with occasional disappearances to go partake in the ship’s activities.
My first activity that day was line dancing. Now, line dancing is something I like and did for several years after moving to the U.S. Granted, I hadn’t done it in over 10 years, but it was like writing a bicycle, right? Once you learn you don’t forget! Wrong! I was awkward, I was clumsy, I kept fumbling all my steps. I tried to blame it on my footwear, clunky hiking boots, but truth be told, that was just an excuse. I sucked! It didn’t matter, though, I had fun!
The lesson was inside one of the ship’s bars and we had a nice view of the outside deck. At some point, a man came dancing outside, with ear buds on, lost in his own world. The whole class stopped to look at the dancing man who had no idea he was being observed. At some point a kid in the class ran outside to tell him what was going on. The man stopped, looked at us and we all applauded. He smiled, bowed, put his ear buds back on and resumed dancing.
That evening before dinner I went to the ship’s spa for my first ever hot stone massage (or massage of any type, as a matter of fact). I am not really enamored with massages, but I wanted to do it because of Sharon, who loved them and had them any chance she had. So in I went, undressed and spent a very nice 50 minutes having my muscles kneaded and relaxing. It was pleasant and I enjoyed it and did indeed feel relaxed, until after the session was over the masseuse started trying to sell me some products for my bath. I made up a flimsy excuse, she kept insisting and after a few minutes of saying no I had recovered all the tension that I had lost. Still, I enjoyed the massage enough that I will probably do it again.
The other highlight of the day was the piano bar, where we all congregated to after dinner to hang out and talk. We were talking, drinking, the piano player was playing Elton John and we were all having a good time until he made the mistake of playing “Girl from Ipanema.” Some members of our group demanded that it be sung in its original Portuguese, there was some heckling and next thing I know I am sitting in front of the piano with a couple other members of our group singing the song. I was actually proud of myself for being there, not because of the quality of my singing, but because this was something that the Alex of 20 years ago would not have done.
Sunday we woke up with the ship docked in Nassau and, after breakfast, Pedro and I set out to explore the island. We walked along the beach and at some point Pedro went in for a swim. I was somewhat out of sorts, and probably not the best company for Pedro, but he was patient and we had an ok time. We eventually ended up at some sort or arts and crafts fair where a lot of things were “free,” but a small donation was required. I got tired of saying no to them, so I headed back for the ship. I told you I was grumpy!
That evening we all got together for dinner at Le Bistro, one of really nice restaurants aboard the ship. The food was excellent, the wine adequate and the conversation really nice. One of my schoolmates, who is able to chat anybody up, got one of the ship officers to take us on a tour of the ship’s kitchen. It was huge, busy and a bunch of us rushing through it after a few glasses of wine made it feel a little surreal.
The rest of the evening was spent in salsa lessons, some really awful dancing on my part and eventually we were back at the piano bar and yes, there was another round of “Girl of Ipanema.” Next morning we had breakfast together, said our goodbyes and went back to our lives, promising we will not wait another 30 years until the next reunion.
To recap, I had a blast! It was good to see some old friends again, make new ones and just enjoy hanging out. I was also happy with myself and how I behaved. I did not revert back to my old “wallflower” habits, but was able to let go of that darn self-consciousness (is this even a word?) and enjoy myself. I really hope it will not be 30 years before we do this again.